She Wants To Know That You Know You Are Okay! avoiding divorce becoming happy happy man wisdom thought patterns

The great prophet Cyndi Lauper once said, "Girls just want to have fun!" In my twenties I thought that meant they like to party. Now on the edge of fifty I understand better that the spirit of what she meant is that the feminine nature is attracted to laughter and fun and connection backed by a...

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How Is This Year Any Different? becoming happy

Given all the undesirable things we can experience as men in this community, you may be asking yourself, “How is this year going to be any different than last year?”

Seriously, the pain from last year was yesterday, so am I now supposed to be excited today about having a whole...

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Using Morning Meditations To Be A Happy Man becoming happy

During a recent men’s group call, I was asked to share the concepts that have helped me go from being a man who was anxious, fearful, frustrated, hyper nice guy, needy, sought outside validation, used sex as a marital benchmark for success, was burnt out professionally, had no...

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She Can Feel Your Resentment, Frustration, and Anger becoming happy

Nothing kills love, trust, and emotional safety in a marriage or other romantic relationship like holding our wife or girlfriend in low regard. This usually starts out small and builds over time. One of the most common silent reasons we start holding her with low regard is because we don’t...

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She wants a divorce, now what? becoming happy

So your wife wants a divorce, or a separation, or just “space”. Now what?

A wife wanting a divorce or a girlfriend wanting space are painful events that ultimately encourage us to take a look at ourselves and seek deeper answers to life’s questions. The reality is that romantic...

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Why You Need To Do Things Without Your Wife becoming happy

Hey, brother. Thanks for being here. Today I want to talk to you about the importance of doing the things you want to do for no one else but you.

This is a hot topic in the Happy Man Community.

Most men report that they work all the time, don’t have hobbies, and don’t have many,...

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